Cohousing, what it's like.
Feb. 6th, 2010 01:39 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
penkI'm having a really hard time with a thread about Cohousing over on ![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
aroraborealis's 'confessional' thread. We have an obvious troll who is working very hard to lump Cohousing into some elitist, drama-filled, fratboy community of college buddies. Is this really the image folks see about Cohousing? Does the rest of my social group only see the drama, and not see what it's really like?
So, in that vein, let me show you what the days are like - it's 1:30pm, and today I have:
* Woken up in my house, with my son still snoring happily.
* Gone downstairs and chatted with my temporary housemates. People who have taken me in, because they are part of my community, during a hard time in my life. They are cohousers too. Had a delightful series of conversations.
* Made and ate breakfast with sleepy son, who quickly darted out of the house after food and went to the common house to play Magic with some of the other kids in the community.
* Installed some shelving into said housemates' kitchen - because my furniture is not being used atm, and would they like to use it until I need it again? Sure! - better they use it rather than it just sit in storage. Because we're all in the same community, it took 5 minutes to get the shelves out of storage and install them.
* Sent out mail asking for some cable connectors and wiring so we can set up to watch the superbowl in the common house tomorrow. I don't have all the gear, butqwrrty has a tuner, another household had some cables, and another household had a couple connectors I needed. I wandered around and picked up what I needed.
* Stopped bydbang's house because she txted me asking for a stud finder for some closet work she's doing. Dropped that off and chatted, also talked about one of her kids going with my son to a local game store this afternoon.
* Went over toomegabeth's house and sat chatting for a half an hour regarding life and stuff. Just socializing
* Back to the common house, installed the cabling and tested it - yay signal in the living room! While I'm not particularly interested in watching the superbowl, others are - and I like doing things for other people. It'll be ready for tomorrow.
And now it's 1:30, and I'm reading the above thread about how elitist, snobby, dismissive, and unneighborly we are, with tons of drama and stress at every turn.
It's frustrating - I love my community - why don't people see what we're doing right, and just spout out blather like this fool (who, btw, continues to post anonymously.)
aroraborealis's 'confessional' thread. We have an obvious troll who is working very hard to lump Cohousing into some elitist, drama-filled, fratboy community of college buddies. Is this really the image folks see about Cohousing? Does the rest of my social group only see the drama, and not see what it's really like?So, in that vein, let me show you what the days are like - it's 1:30pm, and today I have:
* Woken up in my house, with my son still snoring happily.
* Gone downstairs and chatted with my temporary housemates. People who have taken me in, because they are part of my community, during a hard time in my life. They are cohousers too. Had a delightful series of conversations.
* Made and ate breakfast with sleepy son, who quickly darted out of the house after food and went to the common house to play Magic with some of the other kids in the community.
* Installed some shelving into said housemates' kitchen - because my furniture is not being used atm, and would they like to use it until I need it again? Sure! - better they use it rather than it just sit in storage. Because we're all in the same community, it took 5 minutes to get the shelves out of storage and install them.
* Sent out mail asking for some cable connectors and wiring so we can set up to watch the superbowl in the common house tomorrow. I don't have all the gear, but
qwrrty has a tuner, another household had some cables, and another household had a couple connectors I needed. I wandered around and picked up what I needed.* Stopped by
dbang's house because she txted me asking for a stud finder for some closet work she's doing. Dropped that off and chatted, also talked about one of her kids going with my son to a local game store this afternoon. * Went over to
omegabeth's house and sat chatting for a half an hour regarding life and stuff. Just socializing* Back to the common house, installed the cabling and tested it - yay signal in the living room! While I'm not particularly interested in watching the superbowl, others are - and I like doing things for other people. It'll be ready for tomorrow.
And now it's 1:30, and I'm reading the above thread about how elitist, snobby, dismissive, and unneighborly we are, with tons of drama and stress at every turn.
It's frustrating - I love my community - why don't people see what we're doing right, and just spout out blather like this fool (who, btw, continues to post anonymously.)
